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What makes a foot Beautiful

What makes a foot beautiful?

Mr Feat Feet:

            In my opinion, in the broadest way to describe it, I think what makes a foot attractive is simple. I think it all boils down to how feminine it is. The things I love about feet are similar to the way I feel about women, and many other artistic beauty. I love the shape of a female foot. It is truly art in itself. I love a foot to be soft and smooth with a beautiful curvy arch, toes that are round and not boney, and toenails that are pretty and decorative.

I like the foot best after a pedicure, or after it has been soaked. This is the primetime in my opinion to be adored. This is when they are clean and soft, and the skin is most supple. I love the way it feels at this time to kiss and to put the toes into my mouth. I also love the way it feels to have these soft soles rubbing against my body and against my face. I love toes that are slightly bulbous at the ends, kind of like a lollipop. Toenails painted in bright feminine colors are the best. I especially like it when they remind me of candies. The more adorned the feet are, the better for me. I love toe-rings, anklets, designs on toes, the works.

As far as foot size and shape, I seem to like feet that are medium sized, from 8.5-9.5 the best, with slightly longer toes, and a second toe not longer than the big toe. I like the toes to be symmetrically sized from the big toe to the baby toe. I think the reason I like these size feet the best is because the sole seems to fit perfectly onto my face when I place it against it. The deeper the arch, the curvier and more feminine the foot is to me. This also looks better when wearing high heels, cut out sandals, or when dangling shoes from the feet.

Another thing that I find really attractive about feet is how active or wiggly the toes are. When a girl moves her feet a lot, it is like a cat looking at a laser pointer for me, I just cannot resist. I have to observe the way that the foot moves, and the way that the arch and the toes flex and point. Wiggly toes are also a big turn on. I just want toes to wiggle all over my face, on my nose, and in my mouth. That is heavenly for me.

Mrs Feat Feet:

  I’m not the one with a foot fetish, so I didn’t normally go around looking at people’s feet; however, I did notice unattractive feet quite often.  I guess an attractive foot is one that by contrast is not unattractive.  For example, ugly feet are dry and cracked; they are in need of a good exfoliation with extra moisturizing lotion.  By contrast, an attractive foot is smooth, soft, and moist.  Also, ugly feet are dirty.  When I see dirty feet or even someone in dirty shoes, I notice, and I wonder why he/she just doesn’t wash them or wash his/her shoes.  An attractive foot must be clean.  Flat feet are also a bit unattractive, especially ones that have over-sized heels protruding out from the back.  That reminds me of an elephant’s foot.  I especially notice when those kinds of feet are in a pair of plain cheap flip-flops.  Yuck!  Since I’ve been with my husband, who has a foot fetish, I’ve noticed more attractive feet, such as those with evenly tapered toes or well manicured with polish and adorned with jewelry.  I’ve noticed higher arched feet are more beautiful too.  I could also say that I don’t prefer smelly feet, but my husband sure likes a bit of a scent, so may the beauty of feet can be in the nose of the beholder…hehe.  I’m sure that Mr. Feat Feet would be better to answer this question in more detail. ;)

Please share what makes feet sexy and attractive for you:

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When and how to introduce a foot fetish:

Mr Feat Feet:

            This is really a really important topic, for you and for your significant other. Even if you don’t know it, it is very important for your gf/bf to accept your foot fetish for you to feel fully accepted and fulfilled. Your foot fetish is a part of you, and most people with a foot fetish have it deeply rooted in them, so for your lover to not accept this side of you, it is like they are not fully accepting you. This can eventually cause resentment, a sense of not being fully satisfied in your relationship, and maybe even infidelity. Luckily for you, most times if it is introduced at the right time or in the right manner, your bf/gf will love your foot fetish, accept your foot fetish, learn to eventually accept it, or at least tolerate it to make you happy.

            In my opinion, timing is everything. Let me reiterate this point. Timing is everything. If you introduce your foot fetish too early, you could scare a person off. If you wait too long, you might find out that this person is totally against any foot adoration or touching, and will never bend for some personal deep-rooted issues of his or her own (Like OCD). Therefore the correct timing and method of introduction can make or break a relationship.

            Through much exploration, and through research on this topic, I know that when you tell a person about your foot fetish depends very much on the individual. Some people are very open, and you can tell this about them from very early on, and some people are very reserved. Some people will just vibe with you perfectly, and you two will be very open with each other and you will feel like you can tell each other anything. On the other hand, some people will be very shy or nervous, and maybe even not very open or exposed to very much in their lives, and therefore you must wait until their comfort level is to the point where you can tell them such things. I want to give you a few pointers and tips, just for the average person, and you can adjust as to how you see fit.

            When you first meet a girl that is not usually the time to tell her you have a foot fetish, or that you really like her feet. That is best done after you know each other a bit, and she feels more comfortable with you. It is usually best to wait until you have been on a few dates, and things start to get physical between the two of you. One scenario is when you are on a couch together; relaxing and watching a movie, start to give her a foot massage. Don’t start talking about her feet, how they turn you on, or how sexy they are, just start to give her a massage and see what her reaction is. Is she enjoys it and tells you that is nice, that is a place to start. If she enjoys the massage, you might just tell her that she has soft feet, or that she has a nice pedicure if her toes are painted. Hopefully this will start a nice little conversation about her feet or her toenails. If she says “Oh, do you like them?” or something like that, you’re on your way. Either way you know she likes foot massages, and you can keep going that way. You can also compliment her shoes, or compliment an aspect of her feet like a “cute freckle” or “The cutest little toe I’ve ever seen”.  Another way is during foreplay to kiss her body, working your way down her legs, and then start to kiss her feet and see if she enjoys it. You can also suck on her toes while you are making love. Hopefully these subtle hints will make her curious enough to ask you why you pay so much attention to her feet, or if you have a foot fetish. If so, just tell her yes, and that you hope she enjoys it.

            If your new girl doesn’t ask you, then it might be time for you to introduce it to her. You might want to wait until time when you two are relaxed and in a good mood, but not during a love making session, or right before. Just say “ I have something I wanted to tell you. Say it slowly and calmly, and wait for her to respond. Always listen if she has something to say. Don’t say it like you have something bad to say or act too nervous like it is too big of a deal, just say it outright. See how responsive she is to that. Hopefully she will be curious, and ask you many questions about it if she doesn’t have any experience with this. Kind of ease her into this with your responses, don’t tell her everything at once. Tell her that you really like her, and want to explore this with her, just like anything else that you explore in a relationship. I think if a girl really likes you, she will accept any aspects of you, especially a foot fetish that doesn’t hurt anyone, and is fun and enjoyable for both parties. Have fun!!

Mrs. Feat Feet:

             I think that the best time for the person with a foot fetish to tell their partner about their love for feet really depends upon the relationship and the personality type of that partner.  If the relationship is purely sexual, then, I would say to go ahead and be open about it as soon as the first sexual encounter begins.  After all, if it’s all about the sex, then it’s best to get the most sexual satisfaction possible out of that experience.  If the partner is someone who is intended to potentially be more long term, then I think that it depends upon the personality of that partner.  Not everyone is sexually open-minded or not everyone understands what is a foot fetish.  People tend to be scared of the unknown and can react to the unknown in harsh ways, such as through anger.  I think that the person with the foot fetish should gage how open-minded is their partner, and then plan to tell them in stages as appropriate.  For example, if the person appears open-minded, then tell him/her as soon as the opportunity presents itself.  I don’t think that this should be a forced conversation, but maybe flow naturally when discussing a sexual topic.  It could also be introduced during the first sex act as a subtle kiss on the feet or a suck on the toes.  If the person is not so open-minded, then I think that her comfort level with having her feet touched should be explored as a first stage to introduction, such as through an attempted foot massage.  The first act or acts of sex should not include feet either.  I think that the person should feel emotionally invested in their foot-fetish partner and care about him, so that when the news is delivered, then she might feel more willing to try to accept that about him.   If the partner is not at all open the idea of incorporating feet into the sexual relationship, then I believe that this is another topic for later blogging.  What would someone do in that situation; are feet necessary for a healthy long-term relationship when one partner has a foot fetish? 

Why do people have foot fetishes?

 

Why do people have foot fetishes?

Mr. Feat Feet:

            For me, there are so many reasons that I am attracted to feet. I think feet are the epitome of femininity. When they are taken care of, they are long, curvy, and have a very feminine hourglass shape to them. I think it is also because when a woman paints her toenails, they are reminiscent of candy, somewhat like a skittles or an M&M. I also like how sensitive feet are, and enjoy a woman’s reaction when I massage her feet, or suck on her toes. I have become a connoisseur over time, and love every element of feet; the shape of the foot, toe shape, polish, foot and toe adornments, the feel, the taste, and even the smell. I love the full sensual experience of the foot while I am adoring it in every way possible. I don’t know where this desire came from, or why I have it, I just know that as long as I can remember, it’s been there.

Mrs. Feat Feet:

           I have been researching that question because I have been so so curious.  I noticed once that my foot-fetish husband’s blood relatives seem to have foot fetishes too, so I looked it up online, and there is a theory that it is hereditary.  I further read that the brain could have crosswired because the pleasure area relating to the testicles is in close proximity to the sensory wires that are associated with feet.  Hmmmmm  My husband does like his testicles licked a lot too.  ☺  I also considered that it could be a control issue.  Feet do have definite feminine curves, and women don’t always show their feet, but when they do, a man might feel like he is cheating in a way to capture a glimpse of her feminine attribute.  By sexifing feet, a man might feel more in control of his sexual urges by having that outlet.  Women are unsuspecting that their feet are revealing a sexual side, so a man could feel in control by taking advantage of her naivety.  Also, I know that feet have an abundance of nerve endings and tend to be a very sensitive part of the body, so maybe that translates into a sexual body part.  Breasts are very sensitive too, and they are an area of sexual focus that is more common.  These are the theories that I can imagine so far; I know that there must be more, but that is why there is this blog.  Perhaps others have some ideas that they can share. 

What was your first Foot Fetish Experience?

What was your first Foot Fetish experience?

Mr Feat Feet:

 That is a hard question to answer, because it depends on what you consider your first experience, if that means sexual, or first experience that turned you on. My first foot related experience that I remember was when I was in second grade.  I had a teacher named Ms. A, who was the most beautiful creature that I had ever seen at that time. She was sweet and friendly, and she was a very “foot” oriented woman, which made her even more attractive to me. One day we were out at the sandbox during recess and she took her shoes off and buried her feet under the sand. I dug under the sand and tickled her feet while she laughed and smiled at me, asking me not to tickle her too hard. Another experience with Ms. A was when she was teaching a non-English speaking student to count. She removed her shoes from her perfectly pedicured toes and taught him to count to ten in the most wonderful way. Boy was I jealous. I remember thinking what a lucky kid he was, and I wish I didn’t speak English for that day.

I had many foot related experiences since then, but my first foot related SEXUAL experience came when I was 18. A friend gave me a ride home from a carnival with a girl named Becky, that liked me and I could tell. When I was almost home, we started to do some flirtatious talking. I blew in her ear, and she said, “If you do that again, I won’t be able to go home”, so of course I did it again. She went to my house and we started making out. I kissed her feet and she said, “Oh, you like playing footsy!” I said yes, and she started to tease me with her feet, and put her toes in my mouth for me to suck. I was in foot fetish heaven. When I made love to her, I put her feet on the front of my chest so that I could look at them. I was afraid to pay too much attention to them because I didn’t want her to think I was strange or anything, and after all, it was my first foot experience. I never talked to her about it the next day, and me and her never talked again after that day. It was really nice for me though because it showed me that some girls would be open to my foot adoration. 

  Mrs. Feat Feet:

               I was a fetish virgin, a bit of a prude, and sexually awkward.  That’s how I would describe me prior to my encounters with my foot-fetish husband.  I knew that he was into feet though even before he admitted it.  We met casually when we were in our teens, but reconnected over the phone twenty years later.  After he recalled that I had two freckles on my foot and asked me if they were still there, I assumed that he had a foot fetish.  I wasn’t turned off by that assumption though, but jilted just a bit.  The only experience that I had before with foot fetishes was being aware that my former brother-in-law had one, but it was never fully discussed.   I asked my husband straightforwardly if he has a foot fetish and he said, “maybe I do”.  I asked him, “so how does that work?”  I laughed nervously and asked him if feet had to go up my butt or something, but he simply returned my laugh and said, “no”.  He told me that I would see, and I did.  

           I recall that when we first made love, he looked into my eyes steadily as he took my foot.  I was under his trance.  He brought it to his face and slowly sucked on my toes.  He mostly kept his eyes on mine while occasionally looking at my feet.  I found his gesture to be sweet, soft, and endearing.  It wasn’t long before I was totally into it with him.  I fell in love with his tenderness, and I cherish the fact that my feet are now a useful part of my sexuality.  I tell him all the time that he is just too easy to please, and I appreciate that. 

Who we are

     You are probably here because you have a foot fetish, you know someone who has a foot fetish, or you are just curious about foot fetishism.  For whatever is your reason, we welcome you to our blog.  We are a newly married couple, who were inspired to start this blog because Mr. Feat Feet has a foot fetish while Mrs. Feat Feet has learned to appreciate this unique expression of sexuality.  We want to share our journey with you, and discuss topics related to the joys of feet and love.  We are an exploratory couple, who are on a quest for knowledge, understanding, and appreciation for foot fetishism.  We want to share our ideas and obtain your feedback in order to develop a network of like-minded foot fetish individuals through daily blogging.  We hope to provide support to the foot-fetish individual and to encourage those who love him/her to accept, understand, and enjoy this experience.