When and how to introduce a foot fetish:

Mr Feat Feet:

            This is really a really important topic, for you and for your significant other. Even if you don’t know it, it is very important for your gf/bf to accept your foot fetish for you to feel fully accepted and fulfilled. Your foot fetish is a part of you, and most people with a foot fetish have it deeply rooted in them, so for your lover to not accept this side of you, it is like they are not fully accepting you. This can eventually cause resentment, a sense of not being fully satisfied in your relationship, and maybe even infidelity. Luckily for you, most times if it is introduced at the right time or in the right manner, your bf/gf will love your foot fetish, accept your foot fetish, learn to eventually accept it, or at least tolerate it to make you happy.

            In my opinion, timing is everything. Let me reiterate this point. Timing is everything. If you introduce your foot fetish too early, you could scare a person off. If you wait too long, you might find out that this person is totally against any foot adoration or touching, and will never bend for some personal deep-rooted issues of his or her own (Like OCD). Therefore the correct timing and method of introduction can make or break a relationship.

            Through much exploration, and through research on this topic, I know that when you tell a person about your foot fetish depends very much on the individual. Some people are very open, and you can tell this about them from very early on, and some people are very reserved. Some people will just vibe with you perfectly, and you two will be very open with each other and you will feel like you can tell each other anything. On the other hand, some people will be very shy or nervous, and maybe even not very open or exposed to very much in their lives, and therefore you must wait until their comfort level is to the point where you can tell them such things. I want to give you a few pointers and tips, just for the average person, and you can adjust as to how you see fit.

            When you first meet a girl that is not usually the time to tell her you have a foot fetish, or that you really like her feet. That is best done after you know each other a bit, and she feels more comfortable with you. It is usually best to wait until you have been on a few dates, and things start to get physical between the two of you. One scenario is when you are on a couch together; relaxing and watching a movie, start to give her a foot massage. Don’t start talking about her feet, how they turn you on, or how sexy they are, just start to give her a massage and see what her reaction is. Is she enjoys it and tells you that is nice, that is a place to start. If she enjoys the massage, you might just tell her that she has soft feet, or that she has a nice pedicure if her toes are painted. Hopefully this will start a nice little conversation about her feet or her toenails. If she says “Oh, do you like them?” or something like that, you’re on your way. Either way you know she likes foot massages, and you can keep going that way. You can also compliment her shoes, or compliment an aspect of her feet like a “cute freckle” or “The cutest little toe I’ve ever seen”.  Another way is during foreplay to kiss her body, working your way down her legs, and then start to kiss her feet and see if she enjoys it. You can also suck on her toes while you are making love. Hopefully these subtle hints will make her curious enough to ask you why you pay so much attention to her feet, or if you have a foot fetish. If so, just tell her yes, and that you hope she enjoys it.

            If your new girl doesn’t ask you, then it might be time for you to introduce it to her. You might want to wait until time when you two are relaxed and in a good mood, but not during a love making session, or right before. Just say “ I have something I wanted to tell you. Say it slowly and calmly, and wait for her to respond. Always listen if she has something to say. Don’t say it like you have something bad to say or act too nervous like it is too big of a deal, just say it outright. See how responsive she is to that. Hopefully she will be curious, and ask you many questions about it if she doesn’t have any experience with this. Kind of ease her into this with your responses, don’t tell her everything at once. Tell her that you really like her, and want to explore this with her, just like anything else that you explore in a relationship. I think if a girl really likes you, she will accept any aspects of you, especially a foot fetish that doesn’t hurt anyone, and is fun and enjoyable for both parties. Have fun!!

Mrs. Feat Feet:

             I think that the best time for the person with a foot fetish to tell their partner about their love for feet really depends upon the relationship and the personality type of that partner.  If the relationship is purely sexual, then, I would say to go ahead and be open about it as soon as the first sexual encounter begins.  After all, if it’s all about the sex, then it’s best to get the most sexual satisfaction possible out of that experience.  If the partner is someone who is intended to potentially be more long term, then I think that it depends upon the personality of that partner.  Not everyone is sexually open-minded or not everyone understands what is a foot fetish.  People tend to be scared of the unknown and can react to the unknown in harsh ways, such as through anger.  I think that the person with the foot fetish should gage how open-minded is their partner, and then plan to tell them in stages as appropriate.  For example, if the person appears open-minded, then tell him/her as soon as the opportunity presents itself.  I don’t think that this should be a forced conversation, but maybe flow naturally when discussing a sexual topic.  It could also be introduced during the first sex act as a subtle kiss on the feet or a suck on the toes.  If the person is not so open-minded, then I think that her comfort level with having her feet touched should be explored as a first stage to introduction, such as through an attempted foot massage.  The first act or acts of sex should not include feet either.  I think that the person should feel emotionally invested in their foot-fetish partner and care about him, so that when the news is delivered, then she might feel more willing to try to accept that about him.   If the partner is not at all open the idea of incorporating feet into the sexual relationship, then I believe that this is another topic for later blogging.  What would someone do in that situation; are feet necessary for a healthy long-term relationship when one partner has a foot fetish?